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Aug 04, 2020 Here’s the deal: OkCupid is one of the best dating apps out there. I use it, and millions of others use it to land new mates, new dates – and even love. However, it doesn’t matter how good a dating app is if you don’t even know how to start a conversation! This is what you get: 5 Steps to hook up on OkCupid. How to design your profile so it attracts girls who want hookups. 3 Sexy copy-paste OkCupid bios. Which OkCupid questions you want to answer for maximum attraction. 5 OkCupid openers that make you stand out. A scientific way to get her excited to meet you.
The giddy sensation you feel when you match with someone cute on any dating app can quickly die down if they hit you with a straightforward, personality-less 'hey' as an opening line. Sure, 'hey' does the job of opening up the conversation, but it's not particularly interesting and doesn't really make someone want to reply. Finding fun, clever, witty, or even silly opening lines for OkCupid, Hinge, Bumble, or your preferred dating app of choice can seem a little tricky if you're lacking inspiration. (Um, yes, hi, me.) But don’t stress. In 2009, the OkCupid team conducted an experiment where they analyzed 500,000 first messages on their site, and found several factors that play a part in whether or not you get a reply from an OkCupid intro — and whether or not that could lead to a first date.
The experiment looked at keywords and phrases, how they impacted replies, and what conversation starters really made a difference. Based on what the experiment found, OkCupid co-founder Christian Rudder created a few suggestions (and blogged about them on the dating app) to consider applying to your own OkCupid intro. First, he suggested users spell out full words, and not use abbreviations. Second, he suggested trying to avoid physical compliments. Instead of 'hey' or 'hi,' saying something like 'How's it going?' — a question that requires an answer — has a higher chance of response. Rudder also suggested bringing up specific interests based on something you saw on your match's OkCupid profile.
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Even earlier research from 2015 — published in an OkCupid data report from 2016 — supports starting a conversation with something other than “Hey.” Data scientists from OkCupid found sending 'Hey' had an 84% chance of being ignored. After scanning more than 1 million conversations, the report also found data scientists that, across all sexual identities, 40-90 characters was the ideal length for a successful first message. That said, not adhering strictly to the 40-90 characters “rule” didn't offer much of a difference between 'good' and “bad” conversation starters. Most tellingly, the report found short and sincere messages (i.e. something from their profile you liked or found interesting) were more likely to result in a good conversation.
Short and sweet messages do the trick, as does sending a question to be answered, but beyond that, what makes an OkCupid intro message worthy of a response? Do you send a punny first message? A thoughtful one? Is it better to be cheeky? Sexy? Is a lame first message actually kind of endearing to a stranger? Damona Hoffman, OkCupid Dating Coach and host of The Dates & Mates Podcast, says that even though she’s not a huge fan on pick-up lines IRL, “on a dating app they actually can be effective and might even make the recipient laugh, which can lead to a reply.” When in doubt, go for a laugh. And if you’re worried how that might land, Hoffman recommends you can “acknowledge the cheesiness of pick-up lines or the fact that you're sending it with a wink and a nod.”
Hoffman adds that according to internal OkCupid data, “30% of users said that asking a question is the best ice-breaker followed by a simple introduction, which is preferred by 27%.” So a cheesy opening line and a question are both icebreakers OkCupid users are clearly into. But if you’re still stumped on what to say, try these suggestions below.
- Titanic. That’s my icebreaker. What’s up?
- If you have a three-day weekend, where are you headed? The beach? The mountains? Bed?
- Let's skip the small talk, want to meet up for a drink?
- You’ve just won a free trip to anywhere in the world! The catch is you have to leave tomorrow. Where are you headed?
- Hi, I’d like to add you to my professional network on LinkedIn.
- I still use my ex's Hulu log-in, and yes, I will gladly share it with you.
- This ismy life story in four emojis: [insert emojis.] What's yours?
- Two truths and a lie, go.
- Name a theme song that adequately describes your life.
- If you could do anything around the city right now, what would it be? (Let them answer, then say, 'Let's do it.')
- Hey. So, it’s not safe for us to talk here. Siri and Alexa are listening. We should meet up so they don’t record our conversation. What do you think?
- Serious question for you. Best discovery — avocados or Netflix?
- Before we get to know each other, I just need to put it out there that I will need you to kill all the spiders for me.
- Before we get to know each other, I just need to put it out there that I will kill all the spiders for you.
- Are you ready for some smooth math moves? OK, here we go. Are you an angle? Because you're so acute.
- Should we talk for a while or do you want to just cut to the part where I take you out on the best date of your life?
- It's karaoke night at your local bar, what song are you screaming the lyrics to when it's your turn to sing?
- Do you believe in love at first swipe, or should I un-match you and make you swipe again?
- If you were a vegetable, you’d be a cutecumber.
- I’d like to take you to the movies, but they don’t let you bring in your own snacks.
- I think there’s something wrong with my phone. Could you try calling it to see if it works?
- If you were a fruit, you’d be a fineapple.
- Want to play “Never Have I Ever?” You go first...
- What’s your sign?
- What are you doing this weekend?
- What’s one quality you think your best friend and romantic partner should both have?
- Tell me about the best first date you’ve ever been on.
- What’s your go-to hangover meal?
- Let’s play a game of This Or That. I’ll start: Dinner, or drinks?
- What’s the most important quality you look for in a partner?
Additional reporting by Kylie McConville
Experts:
Damona Hoffman, OkCupid Dating Coach and Host of The Dates & Mates Podcast
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9 OKCUPID TIPS AND TRICKS FOR MEN TO GET MORE DATES ON OKCUPID
In this video we going to give you 9 OKCupid tips and tricks how to get a OKCupid date almost everyay. Please be aware that these are OKCupid tips for men and not for women. Sorry ladies ;-).
Here are our 9 OKCupid tips for men:
OKCupid how to #1: Take care about your OKCupid profile. You’ll get some tips for OKcupid about great OKCupid photos.
OKCupid tips #2: Be mysterious on OKCupid . Less is more. Don’t write a bad self-description in your OKCupid bio or OKCupid profile.
OKCupid advice #3: You as a men need to text the girls first. Open your OKCupid girls you find in the search.
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OKCupid advice #4: This OKCupid trick is about your OKCupid conversation which goes beyond your first OKCupid message.
OKCupid tips #5: This is a OKCupid trick how probably did not heard about in any other youtube video before. It’s about the right timing. When is the best time to text your OKCupid girl on?
OKCupid tips #6: Get her whats app number in 4 OKCupid messages.
OKCupid tips #7: If a OKCupid (OKC) girl text you first it’s a great indicator of interest. She is highly interested in you.
OKCupid how to #8: Avoid the penpal! Don’t write hours and hours, days and days, week for weeks on OKCupid or Whats App. Arrange a OKCupid Date at the same day.
OKCupid advice #9: Most important is your OKCupid opener or OKCupid line. Don’t do one of the mistake in your first OKCupid messages listed in this video.
You gotta be different on OKCupid and you can’t sound like everybody else in the OKCupid inbox of a girl. Don’t send dull openers to your OKCupid and make sure that you don’t fall within your first OKCupid message in the generic compliment section.
My recommendations for other OKCupid videos and OKCupid tips are:
– 9 Simple Tips For Free Online Dating Sites by Stephan Erdman – Authentic Game
– 7 Women You Meet on OK Cupid by jasonhorton
– What *Not* To Do On OkCupid! By New York Magazine
– OKCupid Review: Tips for Success by Simone Smith
– Dude Goes On A Date With His Worst Enemy • Single AF by BuzzFeedVideo
– HE ASKED ME *WHAT* ON THE FIRST DATE?! By The Gabbie Show
– HOW WE MET ON OKCUPID – OUR SUCCESS STORY FROM ONLINE DATING by Myka Stauffer
– Reading My Most Ridiculous OKCupid Messages by JessiSmiles
– Reading My Most Ridiculous OkCupid Messages (Part 2) by JessiSmiles
– 7 Guys You Meet on OK Cupid by jasonhorton
– Inside OKCupid: The math of online dating – Christian Rudder by TED-Ed
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